For us and others in a LDR, I feel like showing your love has to come in a different form. You've got to get more creative with it. In a relationship where you're near each other, a simple kiss I love you, a romantic date night or a surprise note on the mirror will suffice. These things... might not be possible long distance. I didn't realize this in the beginning and it really affected me. Long distance is definitely not for me, but for now I've got to deal. So going the distance to me... means actually going the distance to see each other. I recently booked a flight to spend the Labor Day weekend with Joshua. We're so excited for this!
* Extra little tips: video message a love note (perfect to wake up to!), send surprise gifts in the mail, if you can't make him dinner, order take out. Have long conversations and share sweet reminders that you're thinking about each other and how much ya love 'em.
Joshua himself has been making big strides in going the distance.Including a midnight drive to see me for the weekend (while dangerous, it was oddly romantic). There's something to be said about a man who goes the extra mile to make his woman happy. So whether you're in a long distance relationship or a relationship-relationship, sometimes all you need is a sweet gesture every now and then to tug on those heart strings and show how much you care.
It's the little things that goes a long way!
While I am not in a LDR, I totally can relate to having to get creative and make the best of the moment. My hubby is in the military and when he deploys or is gone for trips .. the creativity kicks in major. Kudos to you for being strong through this time for you two. :)
ReplyDeleteWow, yes. I would definitely say you are strong for those times when he gets deployed! And thank you so much for your kind note :)
Deletecongrats, glad everything is working out for you! long distance can be hard and some would say it's a true test of love :)
ReplyDeleteThank you! I would have to say that I agree with that statement!
Deleteahaha I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend (he's spanish and i'm french) for almost two years now, we see each other every 1-2 months... I think it make us stronger and true relationship with two people faithful to each other is possible !
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Hannah
Elegantesque Blog
Oy, that is a long time! Congrats to the both of you, that's a huge commitment and I'm so happy (and inspired!) to hear that it's working out!
DeleteCongratulations you guys. So good you are keeping up, it's not easy.
ReplyDeleteIt makes me appreciate that I am in the same city with my man now.
Thank you so much! One day we will both really really appreciate and never take for granted living in the same city. :)
DeleteWHAT a sweetheart. You guys are really working and it will pay off. Trevor and I were long-distance for several months before he was able to move to Denver. But we survived, he's here, and now he's my husband!
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Sarah
the Reverie blog
Thank you! I'm glad it worked out for the both of you :) I don't know why people say long distance relationships don't work! It clearly has for you. :)
DeleteCONGRATS. I hope it gets easier!
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Thank you! It's been getting better now that we got over that bump in the road in the beginning. :)
DeleteHi, honey! I really liked your blog, you have great photos! Now, I am your faithful follower! I really hope that you enjoy my blog and you will be my follower!)))) Miss you, kiss!
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DeleteThat's inspiring :) I'm going to study abroad for 4 months and I'm staring to freak out about not being able to see my boyfriend :(
ReplyDeleteOh no don't freak out! At least you know when the long distance will end and have a new place to explore to keep you busy! :)
DeleteThis is such a cute post. I am also in a long distance relationship for over 2 years now. It is difficult but it is special in its own ways :) xxx
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Oh wow! That's quite a long time, but I am so glad it's working out for you both!
DeleteAww..congrats! Keep it up! If you love someone it's totally worth it. I was in a LDR for about 4 years. We would see each other about twice a year because I lived in Pennsylvania and he lived in California! It sucked but we are married now! I think I got through it by having "my own life". I had a few close friends that were always there for me and we hung out a lot and I was able to keep myself busy!
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4 years?! That seems like an eternity now, but I am so happy for you! Such an inspiration to know people who have gone through this ordeal and was able to stick together. That must have been so difficult with the time difference and only seeing each other a handful of times. Thank you so much for sharing your story with me!
DeleteThanks for the advice. We're about to go long distance as well, and its a little daunting.
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